Michigan

[NovaAman]

Nah... she's a like one of them ladies who will take a sock of coins and beat herself up and blame some one else. OR, she will go and vandelize her own car, and frame the neighbor kids by planting evidence... LOL AND she always manages to come out smelling like roses.

 

[RaZ]

There are certain mental problems where people enjoy negative contact with other people. So they try to connect with you in a negative way. If you respond they are satisfied and after a time they try to make negative contact again. It's their problem. The best response is no contact. Because any contact with them feeds their desire to make negative contact with you. Very very sad.
Does she have a husband or other adult living with her?

Her husband was transferred to GR about 2 years ago and lives there but comes home once a week for a day. She has 2 adult children living there and I've noticed lately that she wants to hang with the kids' friends. The kids think the chickens are pretty cool, or at least they did.

ETA: Her husband would never act against her wishes. I've witnessed some of her tirades in the past.

 

[Mom 2em All]

If its hungry and has kits... It sure will.

Mom, I know, I know. I have an appointment in May... BUT, they told me to go to the ER if I get worse. Tonight I have no pain. Its just gone. I am wondering if I overdid it with the 3 items I have been taking... I was using the valarian root tea with peppermint to sleep, and the added benefit of settling my tummy... Anyway... I am not going to take chances. Next attack that I have, I am going to the ER and screw my jobs. If I lose them, I lose them. I know I can get help doing the GRP. I have nice friends there. The Sentinel is a different story, but I wrote up my notice on that, and already talked to one of the ladies there while we were at the lab. She went in for blood work too. Well, anyway... I am not too worried about recovery. You are the first person I have ever seen look like they were hit by a cement truck in the abdomen after one. I figure it can't be any worse than having my tubes tied. ALSO, here in Holland, they have the ONE cut only surgery. YEAH!

Well, RaZ, if that is all the crazy nieghbor really wanted, was a goose... well, why didn't you oblige? OH, cuz then you'd probably have your tires removed and set in the back of your pick up... There is no winning with (B)witches like that.

My rear end is still black and blue. That is because the blackness spread from one hip to the other, then kept on going.
My bellybutton inscision is still open and infected.
nice, huh?
But I can eat again.
Side is still tender, not bad, but tender.
I recommend having pain meds. That was the WORST part for me- that and the feeling that my lung had been jabbed with an ice pick.
But no pain meds for 36 hours, just about did me in- cant recommend the surgery unless you have no choice. You have no choice. Its affecting you too much.
AND, I had to acknowledge and sign a paper stating that while under anesthesia, it may be determined that they cannot do the laproscopic surgery, and will have to do the big cut. Depends on what is inside that gall bladder.

But you cannot go through what you are going through now indefinitely. Just doooooooo it.

 

[NovaAman]

Hey, Nike may not appreciate you using their slogan in regards to pain causing removals...


ANYWAY, I will. That's a promise.

 

[chicken grandma]

Her husband was transferred to GR about 2 years ago and lives there but comes home once a week for a day. She has 2 adult children living there and I've noticed lately that she wants to hang with the kids' friends. The kids think the chickens are pretty cool, or at least they did.

Could you talk to the husband when he is home? I am thinking it is worth a try. Ask him to get her off your case? Cause if you just mention one thing like the trash or chickens and he talks to her about those, she will switch to something else to keep bugging you. But if you point out the bigger issue, like she is really focusing on you and your yard and looking over the fence and asking about your new Uggos and calling you names and she is in your space (trash) and can he get her to take her focus off you, then that might work. He knows she has a problem, just ask him if he can get her to take her focus somewhere else and off you.

 

[RaZ]

My rear end is still black and blue. That is because the blackness spread from one hip to the other, then kept on going.
My bellybutton inscision is still open and infected.
nice, huh?

Maybe you need a good leeching.

 

[EeyoreD]

Could you talk to the husband when he is home? I am thinking it is worth a try. Ask him to get her off your case? Cause if you just mention one thing like the trash or chickens and he talks to her about those, she will switch to something else to keep bugging you. But if you point out the bigger issue, like she is really focusing on you and your yard and looking over the fence and asking about your new Uggos and calling you names and she is in your space (trash) and can he get her to take her focus off you, then that might work. He knows she has a problem, just ask him if he can get her to take her focus somewhere else and off you.

I think Raz edited while you were posting. You totally seem to know what you're talking about but from a lay person's point of view I have to say that I've met people like this and they tend to not actually marry authority figures but people they can control and walk over. Even if the husband pays the bills etc, she's likely still in charge if it's anything like what I've seen.

 

[NovaAman]

Maybe he could take her to GR! She's probably taking her lack of hubby being home out on you since you are the nearest male. LOL.

I read somewhere, that if you put a leech on a black eye as soon as it starts swelling, it will take the blood out. You may still have the bruise after, but you will have the ability to see through the eyelid. LOL.

 

[NovaAman]

RaZ, just present her with a feminine personal massager. LOL. I mean, if you are a rooster hoover, she may as well have a plastic rooster for her to hoover. She may feel better afterwards.

 

[Mom 2em All]

Maybe you need a good leeching.

That is JUST gross.