My eggs are under a broody and I feel just as attched to them as I prob would if I had them in a incubator but incubators scare me i'm afraid i would screw something up royally and i just don't want to take the chance. This time I promised myself time I would leave these eggs alone and only candle them twice but I candled them 3 times thinking that me messing with the my first set so much caused them not to hatch but I raise my silkie up daily to check on them. The last batch of eggs I had were my 3 banty's first eggs and the nest got tossed on a daily basis by my young polish hen so i candled them just about everyday to make sure they were still alive and in the end one out of 10 hatched. I honestly think the only way i wouldn't be attached to the eggs is if a hen went broody and hid her nest where i coudn't find it and just showed up with chicks
I think being unattached has more to do with the fact that I lost 6 of the 10 chicks that I hatched in November and the memory still stings. If I get attached to these ones & something horrible happens, again, it may put me off of ever hatching again. It hurt too much, kwim? Not handling them (turning & candling) or fussing over them (worrying about temps & humidity) has helped me keep from getting too attached to them. Letting my broody do it & not being attached has helped the time go faster, too! I cant believe we've only got a week to go!!
Anyhow, I wasnt going to try hatching again until next spring, but my Matilda went broody & I couldnt break her of it. Her stubbornness won out over mine, I guess, LOL! So- I gave her some bantam eggs and a penthouse suite on the front porch & wished her luck. I've checked on them twice (clearly she's doing a better job than I did!) and fuss over her but if they hatch, great! If not, well.... I mostly got them just to appease my very much loved, very much spoiled, little diva of a hen.