It looks like there is a little while to plan things than. Maybe some of her friends could help her come up with a wonderful wish. I know lots of people have suggested DisneyWorld/Land.
If somethings like that doesn't interest her, what about a "Dude Ranch" (or whatever they are called now). Something like that might interest her. All the horses and trail rides and what not. Lots of hands on.
I tried to ask my kids what they would wish for....There ages are 12 and 6....
Of course one of the answers was "to be cancer free for the rest of there life".
Another answer was a baby puppy...
Our 12 year old actually suggested going on a cruise somewhere...She mentioned both warm places like the Carribean and to go on the beaches, and cooler places like Alaska to see the whales and other animals.
Again they are 12 and 6.....
Is it possible to go out of country. Maybe your daughter could find something interesting in another country she would like to know more about...
*The blarney stone is the first thing that comes to my mind...Maybe Ireland would be of interest to her...And maybe she could catch a lepricon..(ok maybe this is only something I would want to do)
* shopping in France
*Italy has lots of interesting things
*I know someone else mentioned Austrilla That would be so neat...The Zoo would be one of the things I would want to go to if I was a kid (again)
I guess the possiblities are endless...
Maybe she could keep a journel and write down anythign that is of interest to her. Maybe she sees soemthing on t.v. or hears it on the radio...After a certain time go through the journel with her and come up with the BEST WISH EVER.....
The sky is the limit....hey there's something else she might be interested in...space shuttles (the stars, planets, solar system...)
Best of health for your daughter and family...
Shawna