Likewise. Regarding the boys, you may not need to address the situation with them at all, unless things get worse. Some topics IMO are not for children: finances, relationship issues between Mom and Dad. Don't get me wrong. If my kids see us argueing, we're sure that they see the end result: conflict resolution. But, we do our best to try not to argue in front of them, and certainly never about private issues or anything involving child care. Same with finances. Kids can be blabbermouths.