Well my grandsons just dropped off Jeter the black lab. They fly off to Ca. tomorrow where the older guy is going to college. I really like that kid, and am going to miss him big time. I love all of my grandchildren, but this kid has been an especially good person from the time he was an infant.
I think about me "having favorites" sometimes. Then I stop and think, "Well, it's only natural.....we all have people we absolutely adore, some we tolerate, and others fall somewhere in between somehow." Now, I'm not saying that your grandson is your favorite...you never said or implied that. But you do have a different connection with him, and that's great!!
In our family Jamie is my favorite. He was my first grandchild, the only one of triplets to survive. And I raised him for much of his life. But Austin is my favorite - a more loving, giving kid never graced the planet. Now all I have of him are memories, and I cherish every single one of them because I know I'll never get the chance to make more. Little Diane is no doubt my favorite - she was named after me and she is an amazing combination of spunk, spirit and compassion. We raised her much of her life too. Of course, Evan is my favorite. He was such an unexpected gift. We thought we had all of the grandkids the Good Lord was going to bless us with, yet surprise!! Sixteen years after Tammy and Dan gave us Austin they gave us Evan too. Then lo and behold, just a few months later along came my favorite - Katiebug. After 11 years of Kenny and Jenny trying, suddenly here she was! (As Kenny used to say with a big sigh, "Work, work, work!") She's bright, she's funny, she's loving and she makes a day happier just because she's in it! Finally, can there be any doubt that Kendra is my favorite? With her determination, her courage and her gentle nature, she's been the perfect teacher for all of us. She's so doggone cute, too!
So I guess I do have a favorite. And as long as they all know they are my favorites, it's all good!