My mom is dying *She's gone now **update*

[texasgal]

Heartbreaking .. ya'll are in my prayers ..

 

[Sjisty]

Toni -

You are in all our thoughts and prayers. I know there is nothing I can say to make this easier for you, but I think of you daily and wish you and your family all the best.

 

[rodriguezpoultry]

The moaning is part of the process. It has happened with all of my family members before they've passed.

You may also want to remember to put some lip balm on her lips as she won't consciously remember to lick her lips.

Be strong for her hun...

 

[JessHall]

Oh gosh, I am so sorry for you....

I know no words that I can say will make this any better. I am just praying for you, your mom, and your family. Please remember that you are all family and everyone deals with loss differently.
Have patience, and know that even though your mom, as you put it, "is between both worlds" right now, she will ALWAYS be with you.... so, talk to her, hold her hand, tell her you'll miss her but that she's done well raising you and that you'll all be okay because of her. Tell her she's been a wonderful mom. Tell her your goodbyes, thank her, tell her it's time to rest... whatever comes to your mind. She is your mom and she'll understand your feelings even if it seems that she's not "there". She'll always be there in your heart.
God bless you

 

[Karrie13]

I have followed this thread from your first post and wanted to tell you that my heart is breaking for you and I am so sorry you are going through this right now.

Your mom may not be able to communicate with you right now but she feels you and hears you there with her. Everything you are doing for her like rubbing her feet, putting lotion on her, sitting beside her, and talking to her; she knows. You are being a huge comfort for her in her last hours or days. Be comforted in the knowledge that when she passes she will no longer feel any pain and she will always be near you in spirit.

And prayers

 

[tonini3059]

She passed at 12:57 today while my my mom's friend, father and my mother's family was here. I let her go. She was just out of it gasping for air, the nurse came and took her bp and listened to her heart and said it sounded very strong, she then walked out to write stuff down and my mom's brother stepped out. I gave her a kiss on the cheek and told her how much much I loved and and I didn't want to let her go, but she needed to go she was just suffering and we all will miss her terribly. I didn't even lean back up and she let out a weird noise an her breathing stopped. I felt so relieved it was such a hard night and morning trying to get her pain managed and just crying because I couldn't help her so after she passed I just got a feeling of relief and that I could take a deep breath and relax... I am going to miss her terribly...everything just is not sinking in yet I just keep waiting to wake up or when she was lying here for her to just start breathing again or to say something.

 

[debilorrah]

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i am soooo sorry! You remain in my prayers. Sometimes it is a relief until the loss hits home, like a smell or a picture.

 

[speckledhen]

My deepest condolences on the loss of your mother. She was so lucky to have you.

 

[wegotchickens]

Grief comes in waves. It will wash over you for months. But first is a storm. It'll hit. Just keep breathing and try to recoup during this calm period.

Still sending you hugs & prayers.

 

[Eggs4Sale]

Tonini, ya' done good.