My mom is dying *She's gone now **update*

[Camelot Farms]

You are amazing person and an inspiration.

Blessings and continued prayers.

Kim

 

[Hillbilly Hen]

I am so sorry for your loss

I lost my mom at a young age also, ten years ago. The pain does not go away but you do get used to it. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. She will always be with you.

 

[jerseygirl1]

I'm so sorry for your loss

 

[gritsar]

My condolences

 

[Lil_Chickadee]

My condolences to you, Toni. You have been very strong through such a difficult time.

 

[chickabator]

I am so sorry for your loss. I was with my Granny when she passed 3 years ago. She was there when I was brought into this world and I was there for her when she left. I know it was not my mom , but my granny was more of a mom to me than my mom ever was.
I am so sorry toni

 

[Bec]

I am so very sorry Toni

She was very lucky to have you right there by her as she was called home. She was waiting to hear it from you that it was ok and you did just that, what a blessing.

 

[FluffyColor]

So sorry for your loss,but remember,she's all better now with no pain.Her mother is probably welcoming her,and all the while she's thinking about you and can't wait to welcome you to heaven.Always remember she's in a better place and she's waiting for you.It works when I think about my grandma,grandpas and dog.I just picture a big black dog at a dog park fetching a kong and bringing it back to the old couple,and then a happy day in 2100 when a an old woman is welcomed to heaven with the leaping and barking of the dog,and for the first time in nintey-one years,she feels the dog's cold,wet nose and sees her head on her lap.Then I calm down and just move on with my life.

As for the funeral,the next time someone says that they want a viewing,just tell them,"It's Mom's funeral,not yours.To be cremated was her last wish,and I see to it that she gets it.It's what she wants that matters because it's her funeral.Whenever you decide what to do at your funeral on your last days,you can do whatever the heck you want,but she's getting cremated.If you're against that,then don't come."Don't say it angrily,just say it calm.(If you get angry,they will too.)If they give you grief,just say,"I'm not going to talk about this if you're going to get angry.Bye."Then just hang up or walk away or get offline or whatever.After some time(I'd say if you want to have a peaceful conversation with no one screaming or cussing,I'd say 20 minutes minimum,)come back and say it again,"If you really wanted to be cremated,but your family said no,and you were viewed and buried,how would you feel seeing that?Angry or sad,right?Then why do it to Mom?"Then,if they get mad,say,"You know,if Mom saw this she'd flip out.And if she saw herself getting viewed,she'd be so mad that she'd scream.If you have any love or respect for her,I suggest you go along with her wishes."If they keep getting angry,say,"Are we really going to fight over this?This is the dumbest argument we've ever gotten ourselves into.Just have her cremated and dump out the ashes please."If they keep going on,then just say,"She'll get what she wants whether you like it or not,but since i can't talk about this forever,I'll go now.Bye."After a while,come back and continue talking.The number one thing to remember is to not get angry at them or talk angily.If you get mad,everyone else will follow,and soon it'll turn into a disaster that your mom would hate to see.

Once again sorry for your loss

 

[M To The Maxx]

I am so sorry for your loss.

I'm sure she had a great life.

 

[chixie]

my deepest sympathy to you and your family... You are all in my thoughts and prayers...