I am so sorry for what you and Alf are going through!
However, reading this thread has made me feel a lot better about the shape that my old cat is in. I had been thinking that he was going downhill, but in relation to your story, and the stories of others, he is doing pretty well. He's 14 also. Or maybe 15. Having some problems, losing some weight, but I think his quality of life is still good. That's the important thing, after all.
I hope that poor Alf passes peacefully.
However, reading this thread has made me feel a lot better about the shape that my old cat is in. I had been thinking that he was going downhill, but in relation to your story, and the stories of others, he is doing pretty well. He's 14 also. Or maybe 15. Having some problems, losing some weight, but I think his quality of life is still good. That's the important thing, after all.
I hope that poor Alf passes peacefully.
