And said that because I was female it made sense.Just read all 17 pages of this. Many thoughts going thru my mind. Op asked for help-then showed to be rude,argumentive, obnoxious AND abusive
The op got defensive when confronted with their behavior.
If I slapped a child then talked about it-i would be so far under the jail they'd have to pipe sunlight to me. I have seen/heard arrests/fines/jailtime for neglecting animals-not abusing them (slapping). I have been guilty of swatting at my birds when they pecked too hard-its instinctive. If you can't handle a rooster-don't. Roosters can and will be dangerous.