Need ADVICE on a guy lol GIRL ADVICE!! LOL

[TinyChickenLady]

It all started out so innocently and now you have AIDs

Hahaha only kidding. Kinda....
I agree with the ones that say not to beat around the bush. It gets you nowhere except covered in poison ivy.
Just say how you feel and leave the rest to him.

 

[zzGypsy]

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I love it when a man speaks his mind, clearly, with caring, from experience.
nicely done.
you sound very like my husband.

loanwizard has sound opinions, and sound advice.

guys can be scared about knowing if they should take the next step too, because they know less about us than we do about them. they often wait for a clear sign from you that they should. sometimes they need more than one.

speaking from experience, being bold and forward will 1) scare off many guys, 2) get you used by the ones that are looking to take advantage, 3) sometimes work out fine. being bold with those that just want to be friends will scare them off for sure.

some guys find being chased flattering. some find it scary. most feel more manly if they're the ones doing the chasing.

all that said... read the ADVICE from Loanwizard above. several times. it's important, and right on the mark I think.

 

[OldGuy43]

I rarely give life advice. My life hasn't turned out all that well after all.

Having said that I will make one observation. I always considered it a huge compliment when a woman said she wanted me, but than, as I once told a young lady that said, "A girl has to play hard-to-get." "Sweetheart, if you play hard-to-get with me you don't get got!" Everyone else laughed uproariously and she blushed and ran away.

 

[gmendoza]

guy advice from a guy:

be nice and polite to him for a good time.He will think you are interested in him,then give him the cold shoulder.dont ignore him completely,but make it non-chalantly like. you know just look at him for a few seconds or when you walk by him just look and then turn from him.It will drive him crazy. He will come over and talk out of sheer curiosity. Then hes yours.

mhwahahahahah!!!

actually has worked on me numerous times in my youth

Remember, getting a guy is like fishing:

It’s all about presentation. If your bait it too flashy, you might scare him, the best is the simplest. Bring it to him, and then take it away. He will swim to you, and take the bait.

Then all you have to do is reel him in, hit him over the head with the oar and toss him in the boat.

 

[SarahBeth9394]

Oh lordie dating is like fishing. That's a riot. The guy is a friend. You would like more than a friendship. Any good guy friend who was interested and ready for a relationship will make it known. But both have to happen. He may be interested but not ready. He may be ready but not interested. Right now you have a good friend and if it's meant to be more than that it will happen.

 

[jbourget]

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LOL

 

[TinyChickenLady]

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LOL

Hahaha you just gave me another thought! Uh oh... I'm walking in dangerous territory now....
Make the guy laugh! And smile

I don't know about everyone else, but laughter is the key to MY heart. And I've heard it's the key to a guy's heart too

Or maybe it's his stomach.... Hmmm tell his belly a joke and see what happens

 

[EweSheep]

Food is too for his tummy! Men love a good woman who knows how to cook good food! My BIL swore he would marry me in a heart beat when he found out how good I cooked food for my daughter. Hubby has a different diet restriction that I don't cook for him in that much (breads, french fries, mashed potatoes, grilled cheese sandwiches is pretty much his diet, no meat, no veggies, no fruits).

I am glad my daughter loves my cooking....I told her to catch a man's heart is thru his tummy. She will learn to cook!

 

[Stephanie739]

This is a funny thread. I would kiss him, but that doesn't mean I encourage anyone to jump into bed! No way. You can tell a lot about chemistry through a kiss. If its good, it has lasting power and you can take it slow on the rest. If there is no chemistry, move on. Whether people want to believe it or not, good fulfilling relationships and marriages ARE built on good - passionate - chemistry.

 

[Stephanie739]

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Have we met lol