Needing hugs and prayers - GOD WHY do U DO THIS?????????????????????

[Cynthia12]

I personally don't believe that God or the devil "makes bad things" happen, life happens, then I believe that it's all about how we handle it. I also believe that God is loving, knows you and your troubles, and is waiting for you to come to him anytime, he is always there for comfort. He understands the anger, we ask for help through it all.
Sooo sorry for all of this happening to you and yours right now. We also have a son with a condition. He has an inoperable tumor in the center of his brain. Has a wife and family. So sad.
Prayers and thoughts going out to you.

 

[patnjess]

Sorry about your son. That is sad. Our 13 y/o daughter was born without 1/2 her brain. They told us she wouldn't live, then she wouldn't make it a year, she would never walk, talk...blah blah blah. they say she won't make it to adult.

She does great! she has type 1 diabetes, and got her period way early due to brain issues, but she talks, reads a little, runs play, and acts like a normal kid for the most part. She is paralyzed on one side, and is technically mentally retarded. But its all a matter of perspective.
I do believe God heals! I have seen it, and i believe He like to shove it in the face of doctors.
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[debilorrah]

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some day I just hope to meet him on my terms. Hey may have a plan for me and mine, but that doesn't mean I have to like it, or agree with it. Humans are willful beings made in his image. Hopefully he takes that to heart in moments like earlier when I was absolutely black with rage.

Honey those emotions are perfectly normal and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. And, by the time you get there for your showdown, you will know nothing but joy anyways. And He does have a plan for and for her too. Think about what her illness is teaching others, what her compassion for other people brings to the table. Gods plan is mostly invisible to us all til we get there and can ask what?? In the meantime, in order to deal with these situations, we need to sit back and look at the bigger picture. What can this situation do to help others be more understanding? What can this horrid thing show others to help them? I really pray ferverently that this will pass and she will live to be 108 and the lesson is still taught.

 

[Moabite]

I wish you and your family well. Glad you are here on BYC.

 

[DaKid]

Sorry to here this and my prays go out to you and ur family

but I to had hodgkins lymphoma cancer and it was stage 4 which they gave me only 6 months to live ,that was back in Dec. 2009 , I when with heavy chemo every other week for 1 day at 10 hrs - for a total of 20 weeks , as of this April 21, 2010 my birthday was the last chemo as of now my cancer is inremission and today date is May 18, 2010 .
so far I beat the odds and with begin a father of 2 children and married for some 28 yrs and a grampa of 2 grandchildren , and so 75 plus chicken - 14 turkeys , quail, and now ducks and some goats this is what keep me ALIVE ,MY FAMILY AND PETS , PLUS THE CHEMO AND SOME GOOD DOCTORS , PLUS THE TREATMENTS TODAY ARE ALOT DIFFERENT FOR SAY 10 YRS AGO,

so keep ur head up , think posible, get the treatment and chemo and preys do help also...................



I didn't read ur hole post but just need to post this that i'm living proof as of today that hodgkins lymphoma cancer can be cure



Alan
god bless and preys sent ur way

 

[Mattemma]

Healing prayers for your foster daughter.

 

[littlefarm_bighappy]

I know how you are feeling. You re at the beginning of a mighty journey.


I have buried two daughters, age 7 and an infant.
THe feeling of hopelessness and anger, the fatigue of medical jargon and treatments.

Just know you are not alone. You will get through this.
My children did not have cancer, but I lost a beloved boss to colon/liver cancer.

There is no "this is the type of cancer to have, it's curable" ANY cancer sucks.

I am thinking of your daughter and sending you healing light.

Love is the ultimate healer- your foster daughter is SO LUCKY that you chose to birth her into your family. SHe could be with someone that doesn't care.
Instead she is with you.

Keep us posted. We care and want to know.
Do what you need to to stay healthy.

 

[Camelot Farms]

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you this day to ask a special blessing on Ashli and all of Boyd's family. We ask that you would bless Ashli with strength and perseverance in this time of trial. Give her the strength to face the challenge and the perseverence to continue to trust in you and the plan that you have for her and indeed for each of us. We are humbled by moments such as this and often struggle to understand the great plan. We ask that Boyd and all of his family are blessed with the knowledge that you do have a hand in this and that for reasons that we can not understand have chosen this path of them.

Wrap them all in the warmth of your spirit. Let them feel your strength as you walk beside them and yes, even carry them through this journey. Heavenly Father, we know that with you, all things are possible. We lift Ashli and her family up this day and in the many days to come. We shout their names unto the heavens that they might be heard and be blessed.

We also ask thee that each of the doctors who are charged with her earthly care are blessed with your guiding hand. Give them sharpened skills and heightened awareness as they care for your child. Bless them that they are able to work to restore Ashli to a healthy state. Give the power of discernment in their decisions and bless them with all that they need to help her.

Heavenly Father, we know that this is all in your hands. Please hear our prayers and shower down blessings upon this family.

In the name of your beloved son, Jesus Christ.
Amen


I know the Lord doesnt mind typos, but I do. Edited to fix them.

 

[patnjess]

amen

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[CedarRidgeChicks]

..x 2..Amen!!