I don't know but it is fun and educational to see the experts chime in with the hows and whys it is what it is. Till then, welcome to BYC!!! Glad you joined in.
Thanks everyone. I've been looking at all kinds of threads and it's all very interesting. I think I may just have a light when on my hands as some of what I'm reading says if they have the darker stripes down their back they are indeed female. And while she doesnt have very dark stripes I do see them a bit.