There is nothing wrong with planning ahead and thinking about what you will do with him if you decided not to keep him. I don't keep aggressive roo's either. By this I mean roo's that are so rough on the hens that they draw blood or cause other injury, or roo's who just never learn to behave around me. I won't spend all my time at the barn looking behind me in case of attack. A good roo will go about his business and leave me my space. But I don't expect them to be friendly pets either.
Just think of him in terms of raising him like a chicken like Jak2002003 said. Don't coddle him or expect him to be a loving pet. Some people will tell you they have a rooster like that but I think those are rare. Just raise him as a chicken first, treat him decent but expect him to do the same. I don't antagonize my roo or try to start things with him, we just leave each other alone. If he starts something I finish it. That is done simply by keeping him off me with my rake for starters and then moving him out of my space. When he was younger and the hormones were running hot there were a few times I had to run his rooster butt around the pasture a couple times to get my point across. I never hit or kick my roos but it doesn't take long for the point to sink in.
It's worth the effort spent, my current roo is now a good roo to his hens and decent enough with me. Most days he'll even come to the fence and take a piece of bread from me, I'll settle for that!
Just think of him in terms of raising him like a chicken like Jak2002003 said. Don't coddle him or expect him to be a loving pet. Some people will tell you they have a rooster like that but I think those are rare. Just raise him as a chicken first, treat him decent but expect him to do the same. I don't antagonize my roo or try to start things with him, we just leave each other alone. If he starts something I finish it. That is done simply by keeping him off me with my rake for starters and then moving him out of my space. When he was younger and the hormones were running hot there were a few times I had to run his rooster butt around the pasture a couple times to get my point across. I never hit or kick my roos but it doesn't take long for the point to sink in.
It's worth the effort spent, my current roo is now a good roo to his hens and decent enough with me. Most days he'll even come to the fence and take a piece of bread from me, I'll settle for that!