most States before they really have any say so, they must be 14 to 16 years of age. (check your State if not here) Before that, The kids can say all they want, just the Judge rules thinking they know what's best for the kids... No matter what is really best for the kids.
Good luck if they are younger...
thanx....yea i know im 15 and have talked to the judge and they dont give a crap they base it off of rumors from the opposing parent and sterotypes id like to give them a piece of my mind if it wouldnt get me in trouble! im not new to this whole divorce thing its been 5 years sinemce they divoreced and have gone ti court 3 times and am just trying a new approach