Yikes!! I don't wanna get banned but I was wondering about this and whether there was a lot of it in upstate NY. I have people who take my roos email me so I can chat with them first and so far I've been lucky, but the ones I had to bring to auction you never know about.
In future, anyone you don't know - meet them at a local establishment - I meet most people at a very busy truck stop unless I know you or unless it's just ridiculous (like when I sold 17 guineas - I can just see that handover in a truck stop parking lot LOL). Another option is offer to deliver - then you can see the layout and turn around if you don't like where they are going.
These are not bad suggestions. If you don't like the look of the place you can call them and say someone else showed up and took them. Or better yet tell them you changed your mind.
I had a guy want to meet me at night in a parking garage at the mall. I don't think so and when he called I told him, no way, ain't happening.
I don't mind if folks are going to eat them and say so. I have taken them to auctions. I would expect more dog fighting and cock fighting in the city here.
I'll just say I like my roos to go to humane homes, even if they plan to eat them. I generally rehome them long before they are of an age to be eaten, so I'd prefer they live decent lives until that time. I rarely have to bring birds to the auction, but that's my option if I have to. I haven't met any scary people of the people that have come to pick up my chickens, although a few that have emailed me I had to turn down. I also will google email addresses and names - helps to know who you are dealing with.
He *should* grow out of it, although only time will tell if he'll be a pain in the butt or a gentleman. 