Oh no, she's didn't give out any personal information, this is all thru Facebook. I had wondered how he found me because it's not like I have a unique last name where if he searched for me only 1 or 2 people may pop up. There are a ton of Anderson's out there. So I ended up finding out that he friend requested my co-worker and she accepted, like the idiot that she is, and he went thru her friends list to find me and sent a request to add me as well as a personal message on FB. Maybe I confused some by saying my phone was going off. I ahve the FB messenger app on my iphone, so when someone sends me a message I get a notification "beep/tone" on my phone. Either way, he has been blocked. And no as soon as I'm done working next week I will never again have to deal with these people. I just dont understand some people.Lynzi,
Is this someone you ever have to deal with again? I wouldn't be worried about messages from him. He can be blocked. I'd be worried over the fact that SHE'S giving out your personal information. You may want to think about dropping her a note. Not nasty, but to the point (make sure it's not nasty, but to the point, in case it gets back to your boss). She obviously doesn't realize how damaging it can be to give out information like that. This way, you don't need to cause drama in the workplace, but it might spare someone else in the future from being her next "victim".
Let her know that it's NOT OK to give out personal information. Sounds like a ditz. Good luck.