Rancher - Thank you for your vote of confidence.
Relocation isn't really an option. We own our house, most all of our family is here and dh has a really good job here. I'm sure that he could get a transfer if we wanted to, but we really like it here and don't want to move.
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Lets see if I can answer you without writting a bookI went to SUNY Morisville and have finished my AS in Equine Science and Management with a specilation in Race Horse Management. I was working on getting my BA in Equine Breeding Management. I would have 3 semesters left of full time classes. To finish I have many "Barn" classes that I would need to complete some of which I would need to be available overnight. DH is a trucker and is gone during the week so I wouldn't be able to leave my little ones home alone over night. I'm also sure that I would have to take many clases over again since it has been 14 years since I left. I'm turning 35 this year and I don't think that my mom would want to pay for me now. (she still paying for my younger sisters). The bigest thing that is holding me back from going to any college again is the idea of taking on any more debt. DH and I have worked very hard the last few years to pay of all of our debt. The only real debt that we have now besides our monthly bills is our mortgage.![]()
I'm not sure what I want to do when I grow up...![]()
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I was in my forties. I was the oldest in the class.
1. Find out what you need to get your BA. Do this on day one. Call or go to the school, get some counseling.
2. Find out what it will cost to finish. You may qualify for something. Do this on day two. I worked for the PO they paid for zilch, but I qualified for enough money to cover one class. The interest on loans is 3.5% or thereabouts. Sometimes tutoring new students pays some $$.
3. Think of a way you can do the work. Who can stay with the kids while you're at school. Do this day three and four. My kids know they can count on me. I'm retired. I babysit when DD has to go to the docs or take the kids. DW and I have already taken the GD to the docs by ourselves. We're on the list.
4. Talk it over with DH and decide how it would benefit your family. Perhaps if you got a job at Morrisville afterwards it would mean free tuition for the kids? DW works at the hospital, DD got to go to nursing school free. I understand that those employed at SU get some bennies for their families. What are your job opportunities after graduation? Maybe DH would like to do something other than drive truck. Will this give him more choices? Maybe open up more opportunities for you both?
Going back and getting your BA may not be the right thing to do, but at least survey your options and make an educated decision. Don't look at the obstacles, think of ways you can work around them.
Sometimes you gotta step outside the picture to get a better view. What would you tell someone who was in your position? This goes for anyone here thinking of going back to school. Take it step by step, one thing at a time. For me it started with one class, then I was taking two or three sometimes four each semester til I finished.
I wish you well,
Rancher
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