So I can tell I'm gonna be irritated with this lady at my oldest child's school. The 3rd graders had to go to the next school because the preschool/kindergarden school closed down because of financing. So the kinders got pushed to the elementary school and the 3rd graders got pushed to what used to be the middle school back in my day but the highschool got added on to so now the highschool is the middle school and the add on is the highschool blah blah blah....
So I'm dealin with a new set of people from this school. I've called Zoe in sick mon and tues. I took her to the dr. yesterday at 2:40 and Ava at 2:50. The dr. calls in a prescrip. but I don't get the med till 6pm because the state doesn't pay for the one he presribed so they had to fax him a list of meds they do cover...so it took till then for the fax and the dr. and all to get it worked out. Come home...have her eat a mini muffin, yogurt, and her med. & fever reducer med, she throws it all up immediately after taking the dose, I can see it floating in the bucket. Later around 8:30 pm I finish making her favorite, cream of brocolli soup, she eats a bowl, and I give her another dose of antibiotic med. She wants to throw up but she manages to fall asleep and avoid it but I thought it was coming because she was coughing so bad in her sleep. She wakes up at 2:30 am asking me to help her take her potty and she's crying and saying she can't move. I take her temp. she's at 102.6...so I give her fever reducer meds.
I call in this morning and tell the office that my daughter went to the dr. yesterday afternoon and she's got pneumonia and won't be in again today. The lady says, hang on....then says, we need a dr.'s note. So your taking her to the dr. today? I said, No, I took her yesterday and I wasn't aware I'd need a note. She says, yeah, if its more than a couple of days we need a note.
I call back after I get my youngest on the bus. Talk to the same woman and tell her, is there a fax number I can get because the dr.'s office is a good 40 min. away? She says yes and gives it to me. Then she asks if I want the teacher to gather up her homework and I say, well, I've got parent teacher conferances so I planned on picking it up tomorrow. So she says in astonishment...so she's missing the WHOLE WEEK???? And I said, well, she has pneumonia and she saw the dr. close to 3pm yesterday and didn't get the antibiotics started until last night and he said she'd miss a couple of days and he wanted to either see her on friday or sometime next week to see if it was clearing up... Well, the tone of her voice and her astonishment is what irritated me...she says, well I'll let her teacher know so she can have it ready.... I mean, don't you think the teacher would be smart enough to have her homework in her mailbox and gathered up especially knowing she see's me tomorrow after school? I don't know...and yeah, my kid has pneumonia woman....this isn't your 24 hour bug strain. ...and yeah, I'm getting my dr. to fax you because I've got no money in my account, I already over drew it, I'm hurting majorly financially because the divorce is getting dragged on and on forever...over 2 years now and I don't have alimony at this point and no, I'm not going into town 40 min. one way and back to pick up a friggon note and I'm not coming 10 min. into town and packing up my sick kid to pick up homework she's too sick to do right now cuz she can't even sit up and stand to go to the bathroom on her own.... Tomorrow I will have grandma babysit my children so I can come in and have my already scheduled parent teacher conferances...so please have homework ready for me to pick up by then.
Do I want my child to miss a week of school? No way. I know she struggles especially with math and I don't want her falling behind but guess what? She's got pneumonia and so getting her back to healthy is the main concern right now...not having her hospitalized is on the forfront of my mind, Miss Genious. Besides, your school rules state...no vomitting, coughing, and fever kids come to school...guess I'll stick with that. You need a note cuz we're going on day 3? Fine...take a fax and eat it...use that tone with me.....