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Yeah, um, great advice but have to have someone willing to participate. I thought we were heading in an ok direction last week. We had a bit of a talk and things seemed to iron out. He was participating and helping but that lasted all of about 3 days.
Now he's petered out again. I just can't keep doing this. He got the truck stuck the other day and then started ranting and raving how if we didn't have horses then it wouldn't have happened. I told him he's gotten the truck stuck on plenty of occasions that had nothing to do with horses. Then he got mad and stormed off.....
I guess he thinks selling the horses will fix things. Sure, it would be less of a drain on the wallet - my wallet - but it won't fix the fundamental problem of his unemployment, lack of desire to get a job and the resulting lack of his helping with the bills and making things less stressful on me.
Now, we are less than 6 weeks from him going back to Wyoming. He doesn't want to be here. He's made that perfectly clear. He thinks everything will be better out there. But how? We still have the bills and such. That doesn't change. I can't work out there. How will I get anywhere? The cost of living is higher and the rate of pay is lower. I at least have a job with benefits. I have a roof over my head and a place for my birds.
I just dont' know what to do anymore. I just want him to get through this midlife crisis thing and grow up. I almost think things were better when he was drinking. At least then he worked.
