Office Work.......

[wegotchickens]

Woke up to a dead chick..

You aren't supposed to take them to bed with you....

The alternative is entirely too twisted for words!

 

[Orchid]

Quote:
Sounds like something Charlie Sheen would post...

 

[ChickenAlgebra]

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Sounds like something Charlie Sheen would post...

Then blame the chick's producers for the dead chick.

 

[wegotchickens]

Quote:
Sounds like something Charlie Sheen would post...

They realized they need each other, so CS and the TV show are trying to play nice again. The circus goes on!!

 

[wegotchickens]

So, I'm Hooked!

Then we'll reel you in, but I ain't cleanin' you!

 

[ChickenAlgebra]

Quote:
Sounds like something Charlie Sheen would post...

They realized they need each other, so CS and the TV show are trying to play nice again. The circus goes on!!

Well, it's at least something fun to follow when I'm supposed to be working. Besides BYC I mean.

 

[maple]

Oh my goodness.... sister #2 .... has a response this morning.

She says mom does support me because she knows for a FACT that mom has brought me milk, diapers, and a bag of pet food every now and then.

Yeah? So what? Mom's and grandma's are allowed to do that. And I watch her dog several times a week and any time she leaves for an extended amount of time for a trip...and groom her, which takes 2 hours. You want an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth? Ok, let's call this compensation. And lets not forget grandma's lil dog is not poddy trained and has urinated and had diarrhea (cuz mom feed her people food before dropping her to me) and she has soiled 3 of the downstairs carpets.

She says mom says she wants to stay in her condo...yes, she said that she does a little while longer BUT for 2 years we have been looking for houses for her and I and oldest sister to live in. She says, she wants to live with me because A)she can't live with #2 because of her wild boys and being so far from everything--town, hospital....and her and her husband work 50 miles away and are gone most of the day. B) Does not want to live with executor daughter #3 because she's gone most of the day and has her little life and feels ? she'll be in the way, and she'll just be uncomfortable there. C) And sister #1 travels and can't pay her own way so mom can't really rely on her. D) She says she enjoys herself with me and my daughters. She gets along with us fine. There may be moments but they are children and it doesn't stress her out and when she leaves she misses me and is lonely.

She says I need to pull up my big girl panties, mom has to cut the infected money umbilical cord, she resents me being a stay at home mom, she says I never worked hard before I got medical issues so I can't play the medical card on her, she resents my statement about "equity (does she mean eqaulity?) in all of us children...based on circumstance??? Drat!." She says I'm getting far more than everyone else?


Really? sister #2 had her wedding in Scotland. sister #1 lives with mom rent free, buys little food, they eat out alot, still mom has just put in $1000 and a few hundred more this month to help her with her bills while she just took a trip to Washington D.C. and yesterday a trip to Chicago. I know when mom drives to MN. to visit this complaining sister #2 that mom helps her when she's there....I believe mom has helped with bills, taken her and her kids on shopping sprees....according to mom when she comes home to pick up her dog she left at my house---who ate my dogs food by the way....and I ask her if she had a nice visit....

I'd like to inform my heart doctor and my physician that my sister told me I have to pull up my big girl panties because she resents me playing the medical card and being a stay at home mom.

I'd also like her to sit up nights, feeling her heart thump strange and have pains and hope she doesn't die in the night and have her kids find her dead in the morning and fear that they will have to go live with an abusive daddy who just might break thier spirit and be sad and miserable and have no self esteem and make poor choices because they lost thier mommy so young and their daddy doesn't treat them right.

I informed my mom this morning...well, I had her sit down and read the letters.....and she is so stressed she can not respond. But I said, wow, I don't think her heart is ever going to soften and I won't be able to come around any family gatherings and be around this toxic person.


I sure the heck WOULD like to blast this sister with a new one because I have SOOOO SOOOO much ammunition about how "fair" our childhoods were. Dad got raises through the years and was able to do more so circumstances were different. My friend is happy for her little bro and sis that they got more growing up because thier dad MADE more. And sending me to private school----guess what...I was mentally, physically, and repeatedly sexually abused there. It sure was a blessing to be shipped off to private school, ya know? and on and on and on....we could go.....

 

[maple]

Quote:
Sounds like something Charlie Sheen would post...

thanks for the giggle

 

[Orchid]

mapes, you should tell your sister than green really isn't her color. See how long it takes her to figure it out.

You are welcome for the giggle!

 

[jbowyer01]

Gretchen your sister will never look at things differently. She's made up her mind and your her target. It will take much more energy to fight with her than to just let go. She's toxic and will only drag you down. I'm glad you showed your mom her response.

((HUG))