Office Work.......

[Buff Hooligans]

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What's his job or connection with Wyoming?

 

[scbatz33]

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Babe, hold onto these like life itself. That's your lifeline.

Start from that place and work from there. Your DH is escaping his unhappiness by fantasizing about a place where everything will be alright.

Oh, I know this. But he won't see. I'm just tired. Tired of fighting. Tired of feeling like I'm at fault. Tired of doing everything and it still not being enough. We have always been broke. This is not new. But we used to support each other. We used to be happy despite it all. Now, I'm miserable and he's miserable and running of to Wyoming isn't gonna fix it. But he's convinced it's the end all be all.

He took a job out there in the late summer. It's seasonal. He has been asked to come back this spring and work again. That's it. No family ot anything. It's just a pipe dream. I don't want to live out there. He's been grump about the winter and yet doesn't seem to understand how much worse it will be out there.

He doesn't want to hear it from me. I don't know anything.

But, enough of my pity party...I'm going to watch a movie and veg for awhile. I have to start driving again tomorrow. I'm not super thrilled about it but at least it's supposed to be a dry weekend so maybe no snow........

Talk to you guys later.

 

[Buff Hooligans]

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Batz, we'll be thinking of you. Wish I had a brilliant idea that you could pop your DH with that would make him wake up...

Take care of yourself.

 

[Buff Hooligans]

Big plans for this weekend: tidy up the basement! Woo hoo!

 

[Buff Hooligans]

[sniff sniff... I'm a threadkiller. Now I have to go hang out with Dacs and he doesn't even eat margaritas.]

 

[Orchid]

I have big plans for the weekend too - deworm the horses and cut wood! What an exciting life I lead.

Batty, I'll be thinking of you too. Sounds like a really rough patch, and I don't have any good advice.

 

[Buff Hooligans]

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How can you cut wood when it's three feet under snow?

 

[dacjohns]

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I don't drink them either.

 

[Orchid]

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Big steps. Tall boots. Waterproof snowpants. Much cussing, swearing and gnashing of teeth.

 

[wegotchickens]

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Unpredictable people can keep family members hostage that way. They call the shots that way.

And she probably prides herself on "just being honest", but really she's selfishly thinking that her way is best, the best ever, and you'll never achieve her best-ness. So don't even try, just say under her thumb.

Or I could be wrong.

Lori ((hug)) My mother is the same way. I can clean all day and that women will be the first to make some kinda comment. Love her but drives me insane.

You got Bows! Love her and am already insane LOL.


Dacs, I do not do canned asparagus, or even frozen.
Peas, I will eat out of a can if they are teeny tiny party peas.

But I prefer fresh over any other source. My own garden is the premium source

It ain't really spring until you can pick a fresh asparagus spear and eat it while the chickens are free-ranging....



Batty, that whole "let 'em go" homily applies here. (The one where if they come back they're yours, not the one where you hunt them down and beat the daylights out of them.) But do what you gotta do to take care of YOU. Because we aren't close snough to help and the one this is, isn't.



I hope everyone has an awesome weekend!