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Look what I found

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I have to take of pic of me in the ONLY leopard print item I own. It's a very classy shirt/sweater. Photo to be taken in near future.

Mich, congrats on your little aliens-to-be.
 
Hey Missy Permit Princess! I'm busy submitting highly important insurance inspection reports ( .... or should be if you wouldn't stop luring me onto BYC every other minute!)! No time for cheesecake photos now.
 
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I guess that will work. When do you want the load of books delivered?

No, I'm buying a $50 furnace off Craiglist in southern podunk or wherever she lives, you go pick it up in your semi, and then take it to her. And drive away FAST.

I aint' southern...I'm northern Illinois...up by wiscony...it's called Winnebago like the Indians....not the camper.


Yeah! dac! Long hair AND driving fast...such a rebel.
 
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oooh that's pretty. And I usually say g as in lil g...and I am short a shift key, only cuz my pinkies don't wanna bother.


I may have to move...the d thing...If I stay then I have to pay x a portion of the equity, so mom would have to get a loan for 60 to pay the bank and 44,500 to pay wayne his half of the equity. Or I could sell the house...give x half because I'm sure it won't get the appraised value and get a smaller home that I can afford and doesn't have the problems this one does...


oh and batty....nothings for certain now. You're married...you aint' goin anywhere...or are ya? If ya are...hurry up and get here so I can have some help with the mortgage....just sayin...
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Me and mom went to the bank and I'm just nervous about everything working out or not. I'm getting frustrated at it all...mom can buy it and pay it up in cash if she wants to and it wouldn't be but a drop in the bucket in her finances, but then she says, but if i help you then i owe your 3 other sisters the same amount of money to be fair and la la la.... which is crap if you ask me....since I'd be renting to own and well, I need 20% down---that I need her help with. And she listens to a radio show host who says, no, mom and dad don't have to be fair to thier kids. They help out the one that needs help. Get over it and stop giving your parents a hard time...you're a bad kid for making a stink... and mom says, she agrees.

But apparently it doesn't pertain to her. My lawyer told her when she mentioned the sisters...she rolled her eyes and said, yeah, but Gretchen's sick and you are family and if you can help her out...you help her out...doesn't mean anyones entitled to your money....but who else is going to help her? My mom even talked about govt. housing several times..I told her that'd be like throwing me and my children to the wolves...it's drug infested, crime ridden, and shots get fired over in those parts and people get killed. That's why I'm disgusted with my family. It's all about my sisters being greedy and selfish and thinking I'm gonna sponge off mom and widdle away thier inheritance. When I'll be able to pay my own way...it's just I need help getting there. Firggon sucks. And forget about my oldest sis livin with my ma rent free which is drivin my other sisters insane. Mom said it's till she got healed up from her hysterectomy which only took a few months....a year or more ago...and then to get her kids through school/college but then sis takes lots of trips and vacations and mom said, it wasn't really meant so she could go travel--to Alaska, Scotland, D.C. .....it was to help her kids out, she thought she'd be spending more $ on her kids. But none the less....

Mom also said she's worried about her mind and said she'd want to live with me over everyone else and not go into a nursing home. I told her that was fine with me, I love her, she's my mom, I'll take care of her...barring if she can't walk and I can't assist her any longer.... but she has not told the other sisters this. Then my oldest sis says if mom lives with me then she wants to live in a camper on my lot and pay the electricity for the residence....and I said, sounds ok to me. But then mom's wondering if she's ready to move in together yet. We looked at houses to fit all of us and I do not want to live like she does...I want to be zoned ag. She likes her condo area where she is right now.... so fine, whatever. But I told her when she gets old and senile she can have the room that I would make an office that has cat wall paper up in it. And I said, we can put floor boards down and oldest sister can live in the attic...which is actually really cool when I looked up there....it's really spacious and has a window. She's the adventurous type and goes to sleep in yurts and tree houses when she goes on her adventures.... it's just the middle 2 sisters who make such a huge fuss. So mom says she'll help but she worries about this that and the other and so I start to feel ok, like...maybe me and my girls will get through this and then she says something else another day and I feel.... like my world is crashing down.

I'm so stressed now. I had major chest pains this morning. It was scary. I had the phone in my hand in case I needed to dial 911. I'm still scared. This stress isn't doing me any good but I don't know how to make it ok. I need help...plain and simple. If my dad was here I know he'd reassure me and sit down with me to figure it all out. But my mom? Just when I think ok, things are looking up....then she starts hemming and hawing again. Why?
 
Our home computer is having issues right now (and it's not a teenage girl, either) so I won't see y'all until Friday - I am taking tomorrow off work.

Be good - and if you can't be good, then make the most of it and be very, very bad!
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