OK, I feel I am being called once again to save one of my brothers. I did it once, saved my oldest brother from the miserable streets of Pontiac many years ago. I had almost nothing but big debt from college at the time and a new job that didn't pay the bills for many months. But I took him in, bare foot with no clothes and no personal possessions and no job. I paid for everything for quite awhile.
That was 23 years ago and he pretty much has no respect for me and has never been thankfull and hates me to this day.
A little about him, he is a drug dealer for most of his finances and live quite well with under-the-table jobs and thus does not pay much in taxes. In other words he does not make an honest living. I took him into my home (an apartment) and two years latter had to leave because he wouldn't and I am not a druggie.
Now one of my other brothers is in trouble. He is a serious substance abuser and followed his older brother but became so addicted it was scary. His health is so bad he could bleed out practically any time. His employer just laid him off after he finished a commercial contract upgrade for a hospital. The contractor needed him for his journeyman's license and now has dumped all of the employees. None of them were employed long enough to collect unemployment. Most of which were hired from out-of-state, including my brother.
This brother called me today desperate, he has $390 to his name, enough for a train ticket from Montana to Vermont. I am facing a big salary cut, gigantic property taxes, massive cost of living and who knows what else. Yet I could sure use some help on the farm, a lot of help. Yet I have been burned in the past from the other brother.
I doubt my story is unique, but I am so afraid.....
That was 23 years ago and he pretty much has no respect for me and has never been thankfull and hates me to this day.
A little about him, he is a drug dealer for most of his finances and live quite well with under-the-table jobs and thus does not pay much in taxes. In other words he does not make an honest living. I took him into my home (an apartment) and two years latter had to leave because he wouldn't and I am not a druggie.
Now one of my other brothers is in trouble. He is a serious substance abuser and followed his older brother but became so addicted it was scary. His health is so bad he could bleed out practically any time. His employer just laid him off after he finished a commercial contract upgrade for a hospital. The contractor needed him for his journeyman's license and now has dumped all of the employees. None of them were employed long enough to collect unemployment. Most of which were hired from out-of-state, including my brother.
This brother called me today desperate, he has $390 to his name, enough for a train ticket from Montana to Vermont. I am facing a big salary cut, gigantic property taxes, massive cost of living and who knows what else. Yet I could sure use some help on the farm, a lot of help. Yet I have been burned in the past from the other brother.
I doubt my story is unique, but I am so afraid.....