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This s my first grandbaby. I was hot, Carl was hot. My daughter and her boyfriend are both from divorced parents so with 4 different sets of family up at the hospital we didnt know how it would go. Of course Carl's ex in-laws were the only ones being completely out of hand. Standing gaurd and not letting anyone to see Kaiti. I told Jimmy(baby daddy) we were leaving and if he or she needed anything to let us know. Jimmy text us to come back up when she was closer to delivery. There was no point in staying there if we couldnt get back there. I told the Aunt that her father had not even been back to see her and he was going! Of course that family has always thought I was nothing to Kaiti, just the stepmom. She has been my child since she was 4 years old. She is 17 now. I ssay she is mine. Suprisingly kaiti's mom was nice and offered if I wanted to go see here yesterday morning. But if I see that Aunt outside of the hospital she has a piece of my mind coming! i figured a grandchid would stop this crap. Been fighting with that family for 13 years and I am plain fed up.
 
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I could see you giving that stink eye Donna! of course i could also see steph just reaching back and slapping a fool.

I guess we are headed out out to school....lots of stuff to cover...I think I made it to Wed on some of my plans for the week
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Anyone wanna bring me about 6 yards of sand or smething for my coop....it is so wet....

Congrats Steph....bite the feet for me! I likes baby feet...they are so cute
 
steph - family is more than blood...it is love. there are several folks that are my family that i would smack anyone that said diferent...not a drop of relation and we don't care! My kids call several close friends uncle or aunt...and they are! You just love that grandkid and
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anyone that says different! tell the other mom thanks though..sounds like she is trying to share!
 
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I will try to take pics today to post. I didnt want to take any last night. Poor baby was so swollen she didnt look like either of her parents. The swelling was already starting to go down after 30 minutes. Kaiti had a long hard labor. Of course if her mother had told her that pain meds would slow down the labor she might have been done sooner. They had her with an epidural and a morphin pain pump!
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I think for the situation she was being really good. Kaiti's mom is usually the first to tell her that "she is not your mom in anyway!" I've always told Kaiti I understood how her mom felt because having your child call someone else mom too is very hard to hear, but if i love you like you are mine and protect you like you are mine, then you are mine too and she should be thankful that you are sooo loved and that you dont have just one set of parents that love you, you have twice the love from 2 sets of parents.
 
Stephanie - Congratulations on the new grandbaby! This time next year you can show her how to gently handle baby chicks.
I like the baby's name - but she isn't likely to find it spelled correctly on a rack of pencils at the novelty store and will be spelling it for folks all her life. Not a bad thing - it is nice to be unique.
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Thank you. Kaiti and Jimmy thought about changing her name( they had picked it out earlier in the pregnancy), but Kaiti's moms side threw a fit because they had already put that name on alot of the baby items. So trying not to upset anyone Kaiti kept the name.
 
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LOL..... I told Carl that short of Kaiti telling me i cant hold that baby, anybody else tells me..... Carl said he knows the number to the police department and will bail me out too...lol
 
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Ha ha ha ha! This one is my favorite, Buster!



Good morning, all - I am still catching up...

So glad to see Les on the board last night! Miss him...
 
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Congrats on your new grandbaby. Just hang in there and do what you gotta do for your daughter and grandbaby.

P&B.. I gave up a long time ago trying to find any novelty things with my name on it.
 
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