Opa, maybe you have some words of wisdom for me. I am heartsick over some decisions my 19 yo daughter is making. She is deliberatly choosing to live a life the direct opposite of how I raised her and then flaunts it in my face as proof of her independence. It is making me so heartsick. We had a good time in SF the other day and managed to sidestep the sticky issues, and then she shows up at my house today and tells me things she knows will break my heart. I just can't seem to stop crying about it. I know she is an adult. I know she can make her own decisions. But that doesn't make it any easier when you see someone you love and have spent almost 20 years devoting your life to throwing her life away. I am just sick about this. just hearsick
I started a thread on this so it really doesn't have to go anywhere on here, just wanted another shoulder to cry on.