I don't know what to do with the curly coat, so I don't know if the dryer is necessary or not. If it is necessary, you should desensitize her to it first. Do it the same way that you would use loud appliances- have it on in another room, then with her in the room with treas, then near her with treats, then blowing her with LOTS of treats. Make sure that the water is warm but not hot, or at room temperature so that it's not to shocking. Allow her to sniff and look at wherever the water is coming from (sprayer, cup pouring it, etc) and give her treats while she's getting wet. Keep whatever's putting the water on her close- don't spray or pour from far away so that there isn't too much scary water moving around. We didn't do Finn's head today. Don't let her jump out of the tub while you're bathing her. It'll be easier to bathe her if you have one person in the tub doing the water, and one person giving treats. Finn liked his shampoo massage much better than the sprayer. The whole time through, talk in a calm voice and tell her what a good girl she is.