A year or so ago DD1 invited a girl over for a play date that did not go well. The mom said she had no diet restrictions (I always ask) so I planned on the girls making cookies together. Then kid says she is not allowed sweets and proceeds to pitch a fit that she's not allowed to eat the cookies.
So we don't invite her over again. A year goes by and DD still likes this girl. So this weekend we told them to each invite two friends for an overnight movie campout for their birthdays (my dds are close together) DD invites this kid. Mom calls last night and says she wants to drop kid off at 10:00 AM and not pick her up till the next day as she and hubby will go away fro the night.
DD1 tells me this kid still is not allowed sweets and other "junk" food and that she is always telling the other kids that their food will kill them. This is a Birthday party. I was planning ice cream and cake and popcorn etc.... It isn't every day fare, its a party. I seriously do not want to deal with this kid for 24 hours!
But, DH thinks the parents see themselves as doing us a favor by letting their kid come when they were not going to be home.....
This girl is 9. She's taller than me and wears a bra. How far do I need to go to accomodate her "dietary restrictions"? Dh said she is older now and I should assume the best. I have listened to DD talk about her all year and I think she's a nasty brat. WHy DD likes her is a mystery to me.
What to do??!
So we don't invite her over again. A year goes by and DD still likes this girl. So this weekend we told them to each invite two friends for an overnight movie campout for their birthdays (my dds are close together) DD invites this kid. Mom calls last night and says she wants to drop kid off at 10:00 AM and not pick her up till the next day as she and hubby will go away fro the night.
DD1 tells me this kid still is not allowed sweets and other "junk" food and that she is always telling the other kids that their food will kill them. This is a Birthday party. I was planning ice cream and cake and popcorn etc.... It isn't every day fare, its a party. I seriously do not want to deal with this kid for 24 hours!
This girl is 9. She's taller than me and wears a bra. How far do I need to go to accomodate her "dietary restrictions"? Dh said she is older now and I should assume the best. I have listened to DD talk about her all year and I think she's a nasty brat. WHy DD likes her is a mystery to me.
What to do??!
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