I seem to have the best luck with perennials that don't care what's going on around them

. Out of everything I've tried in my garden, only my rosemary, oregano, thyme, and lemon balm have stuck around (my catnip might have survived this year but I haven't been out to check in a bit). Rather than spend money on stuff I know I'm terrible at growing, I think I'm just going to stock up on more of what's worked. Maybe I'll make myself a whole forest of rosemary, who knows. I'll have to see what the local co-op's big plant sale has to offer this spring.
In my front flowerbeds I've got a couple of the scraggliest roses you've ever seen, but by golly they bloom for me twice a year so whatever. They can look like sticks in the mud the rest of the time if that's what they want. Also, this being the South, I've got daylilies out the yin-yang, and irises from my grandma's garden. They took two years to decide to bloom but it was worth it! I also have a small collection of hostas that I like to add to every year. I have no idea what variety each one is. I just like hostas. I want a giant one but I have no place to put it...though I did just rip up everything by the mailbox last year, so maybe I could put one there...hmm...
Last year I adopted my mom's dwarf pomegranate tree. It didn't give me any little pomegranates but the flowers are certainly pretty. I would love to get a bigger fruit tree or two in the front yard once the Bradford pear finally kicks the bucket, but I can't decide between cherries or some variety of heirloom apple. There's a guy within driving distance of me who's made it his life's work to save old heirloom apple varieties and I would love to get some trees from him.