This. Blows. My. Mind.The kicker was when another relative showed up at my house one day without warning and told me she was having a party for her son and was expecting about 11 people to show up any minute. AT MY HOUSE. Her house was too small for a party, she said. So she was using mine. Lol. I let her know in no uncertain terms that no, that was not happening. A party at MY house and I was neither inforned nor even INVITED? Oh no, she didn't. I think I may have turned into one of these: