I Am 47 "growing up" has nothing to do with the issue it is about what the employer wants relating to a job hiring after all you would be working for them not gracing them with your presence
"Getting offers" is not how the police hire people those are mere suggestions I have been through the process and can tell you abundant tattoos and piercings will not do any good for your chances as one of the parts to the process is an interview by older experienced officers. I have seen police with tattoos and it is suggested that they cover them up but you cannot wear long sleeves all the time. There is also a STIGMA attached to people with abundant tattoos and piercings (drugs) and note I said stigma, by the general public I know it is not always the case but it is there nevertheless.
Working for the "state" I will grant you all bets are off.
The state is forced by law to hire anyone so that is really not a fair comparison. They hired a guy with no arms at the Forest Service when I worked there to hand out information at the front desk with his teeth to the public and answer a speaker phone with his forehead and a big button. You kind of insulated my point though as if they do not see them they are not a problem unfortunatly not all people have the common sense to not tattoo their face or areas that cannot be concealed.
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I have no desire to go into police work, mainly because I'm extremely petite. I'm strong enough when not pregnant, but still, when I'm 4" below the average for women and am never over 100lbs when not pregnant, it's not the line of work for me.
I do however work for the state. And I'm hardly the most pierced or tattooed person in my department, never mind in the entire state employee listing.
My husband is HEAVILY tattooed, and has offers to go into police work almost daily. However, he likes what he does, and doesn't want to go, plus the department here has a major history of not having jobs for the deployed officers when they come home. So no, he isn't pierced, but he's got visible tattoos and those have never been a problem. However, looking at the officers here, a fair number have ear piercings other than single lobes.
This is called simply, it's time for YOU to grow up and get over yourself. You don't like piercings and tattoos, you don't have to. However, despite your ideas, they are not a negative aspect in life if you do them responsibly. If you ask my boss what work do I have done, he'll respond "I think her ears a few times, but I'm not sure, they don't bother me, and I don't see them" Most people who see me in a professional setting see my tragus piercings, maybe the bottom 2 or 3 lobes. Nothing else is shockingly visible.