Well, Not sure what I did but I did it. I used the washcloth like you said
@Eggcessive and when I brought her out of the salt water I was trying the see what that was over the healthy tissue and it was like a very thick rubber. I peeled it off all in one piece. Was pretty interesting and a bit gross butt (haha butt) it left healthy looking tissue so I tried again and it went in ! I grabbed the triple antibiotic and put a glob over her vent and she sucked it in. Hoping it might stay this time .
@Wyorp Rock 

vent itself looks normal .