To answer your question @Molliep2, Yes it is entirely possible to raise checks while working full time and no they won't end up of street gang of thugs if you do so. In fact, though probably be grateful for the fact that you're out earning a paycheck which will keep a roof over their heads and food in their bellies. As has already been noted arranging to be home for the 1st day or so is always a good idea so that you can make sure that they are settled and oriented to food and water and warmth. Once that has been established they are quite fine on their own for extended periods of time as long as you are sure they have access to feed water and warmth in your absence. As to the assertion that your constant presence is necessary in order for them to bond, I have neither the time nor the crayons to respond.....