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Ranchie, a dear heart is lost.

Discussion in 'Random Ramblings' started by Opa, Oct 26, 2011.

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  1. Opa

    Opa Opa-wan Chickenobi

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    BYC just became a lot smaller today. Sadly, this morning Sally Baldwin, BYC's very own Ranchhand has gone to that great chicken coop in the sky. While she had suffered for a number of years with debilitating arthritis she was still a veritable ball of fire. She had a zest for life that was enviable and those of us who came to know her affectionately as "Ranchie" will miss her greatly. I last talked with her about two weeks ago and she informed me that she had become quite ill and the prognosis wasn't good.
    Inspite of that she downplayed it and was more concerned about how I was doing.

    She was the first person on BYC with whom I formed a friendship and we would often call each other to share a problem or a smile. She became the sister I never had. Ranchie was never afraid to voice her opinion and she also never failed to step up to help when someone would post a problem. She was someone who I feel helped BYC become the wonderful place it is.

    One memory of her that I will always cherish was the winter of 2008. She had posted a picture of an object for people to identify and if they could she would send it to them. If memory serves mine was the very first post and I identified it as a darning egg. She thought since no one darns socks anymore that it might be awhile before someone got it right. We wrote back and forth and a week later the wooden egg with a handle arrived along with an old pair of Todd's socks in need of mending. Hope darned the socks and I sent them back to her in South Carolina. A couple of days later she called, laughing, to inform me that the socks had arrived and to tell me that as funny as getting the old socks back, funnier still was that as she walked from the mailbox to her door, opening the package, it started to snow. She wanted to know what sort of strange stuff had I placed in that package to cause that to happen in the Deep South.

    As I said Ranchie was always one of the first to offer advise or a kind word to those who needed it and it's ironic that her last post eight days ago was to extend condolences to a member who had lost some in their family. This was the last words she posted on BYC. "The loss of someone close leaves a hole in your life and heart. Fill the holes with treasured memories and they shall always be with you."

    In the spirit of Ranchhand's last words on BYC I would consider it a great gift if you would take a few moments and share your memories of her with us.
     
  2. EmtheFishLady

    EmtheFishLady We're all mad here Premium Member

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    What a terrible loss. She was always there with a laugh, smile, or a hug to someone who needed it. I will miss seeing her posts. [​IMG]
     
  3. redhen

    redhen Kiss My Grits... Premium Member

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    OMG.. i cant believe this.. i'm in shock rightnow.
     
  4. sourland

    sourland Broody Magician Premium Member

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    I'm at a loss for words. I became friends with Ranchie through Gritsar maybe a year ago or so. The BYC family will miss her - I will miss her. Sourland George

    I sent her a get well card several months ago - she PM'd me back trying to make me feel better. That was Ranchie.
     
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  5. mississippifarmboy

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    I am so in shock. I haven't heard from her in a while, but I had no idea she had gotten so bad.

    I wasn't close to her as you were, but I talked with her in PM's and such often and always enjoyed the way she could make you smile even when your day was not so great. I had sent her a card a few weeks ago and she replied back trying to cheer ME up. That's the way I will always remember her, as one of those rare people who thought of others first.

    I know I speak for all of BYC when I say....

    We'll miss you Sally.
     
  6. StevenW.

    StevenW. Lovin' My Quackers!

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    Even though I wasn't close to her, my heart aches for her and her family.

    This is truely a sad day...
     
  7. redhen

    redhen Kiss My Grits... Premium Member

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    This is just crazy.. [​IMG]
     
  8. Lunachick

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    Wha? is this for real???............Oh my.. I'm at a loss right now................[​IMG]
     
  9. CityGirlintheCountry

    CityGirlintheCountry Green Eggs and Hamlet

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    I too got to know her through Gritsar. She was a delightful, funny woman. I will miss her. [​IMG]
     
  10. Spookwriter

    Spookwriter Overrun With Chickens Premium Member

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    ...a smaller place. For she touched so many lives here.


    Mine included.
     
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