RANT!!!! My husband killed my favorite hen!! R all hubbys this dumb??

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Oh honey, I'm so sorry. In this heat we ourselves have to fill the water containers several times a day as they drink like mad in this weather. Maybe he did fill it and they drank it? Or maybe he forgot. It was an accident, albeit an avoidable one. Me, personally, even at the expense of being late, I'd double check behind when he takes care of the birds from now on, but I'm sure you already thought of that. My kids accidentally did that to me too. I've been laid up for a few weeks now after being in a car accident, and getting out to the coop has been...difficult, to say the least. I have to walk over uneven ground to the fencing, and then step OVER the fencing, and I suffered more nerve damage than I already had in the accident, and it's affecting my right leg so that I have a lot of trouble lifting it. So, for the first 2 weeks the kids were doing a good job of filling the food and water. They even filled the water in the pool for the ducks daily. The only problem? There were a bunch of teenage chicks in the coop and my kids didn't take into account the fact that the babies couldn't jump up into food to eat, so basically they were eating the scratch and scraps we tossed them daily, and grass. I was able to tolerate the pain one morning and I went out to the coop to check on my birds and I found one of the babies dead, a little cockerel. I was puzzled, cause he was the largest and the only one that COULD get into that food dish. I had the kids bury him while I went to check on the other babies. I found the rest nearly starved to death. I was very upset at this point, so I had the kids bring them inside, set them in a brooder, and give them food and water. Well, come to find out my kids thought that Ellie, one of those babies, was doing just fine, so they didn't bring her in. Almost all the chicks were black, so I hadn't noticed that Ellie wasn't in the brooder until my older DD comes running in the house to tell me she had died out in the coop. More anger. Of the ones in the bator, I lost 3 more, including my younger DD's Mottled d'Uccle cockerel. We are now down to 3 surviving chicks out of 8. My kids felt awful, and I felt stupid for not telling them to set a lower food dish for the babies, but in my pain, it slipped my mind completely. I've had the survivors in the brooder for a few days now and they are eating and drinking well and putting weight back on. I'm left with a White Cochin cockerel, a Black Cochin cockerel, and a Mottled d'Uccle pullet. When I finally get around to putting the next group outside, their food and waterer from their brooder is going out with them. And just due to this horrid heat I lost a Speckled Sussex pullet. This summer is not turning out to be a good one. I forgave the kids though, because it was really my fault, not theirs. Maybe you could talk to your husband, explain how much your chickens mean to you, and let him know that chickens NEED to have a constant source of water in this heat or they will die, in case he hasn't figured that out yet. I really feel for you. I know what it's like to lose a special bird.
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I do the same thing with my duck pool. My ducks and chickens are in together, so we make sure the pool is always filled (not that the ducks don't make it nasty), because a lot of the chickens prefer to drink from the pool as opposed to the waterer.
 
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No way they drank that much. And he has been doing chores (poultry) for me when I can't for 7 years! He knows better. He was in a hurry and refused to let me check behind him. "We're going to be late"! Was it worth this to be on time? NO!!!!!!!
 
I remember one year, others may too it was a great year, when the Yankees lost the series... I was up watching... Papa was asleep. I ran into there and jumped on the bed screaming 'THE YANKEES LOST!!" and doing a happy wiggle. He's half asleep, so he says "Huh?" and again with 'THE YANKEES LOST!!" *happy wiggles*

"What? What Yankees?"

"The World Series... THE YANKEES LOST"

"Uhhh... what?"

"BASEBALL!"

"Ohhhh... that's good right?"
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MY DH is dopey about sports... just doesn't give a fig (can't say I'm upset about no beer swilling and spilling super bowl parties) but you talk Philosophy, Physics, etc and he'll talk your ear off.

We've all got our strong suits... and I'm the WORST about getting distracted *cough BYC cough* but I do try and take care of the animals that depend on us... especially in this heat. My absentmindedness hasn't lead to death, but I have ruffled some feathers.
 
So.. he lied to you about giving them water then?
If thats the case, hes not a very good person at all. Actually, thats a very cruel thing to do to an animal...
Was it a mistake..did he forget? Or did he LIE to you... thats what i would need to know...
 
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really if they are drinking that much water I need to fill a couple times a day I just put in extra water pans,bowls whatever I find for them,,I dont even like having to fill several times a day and this way if I need to leave I dont need to worry about them.
 
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IF hubby had filled all their bowls before we left she would still be alive! He said he did everybody, but I know he forgot. Just didn't care enough to let me check behind him. This is the price I paid for him to be on time. To see HIS family. They would have had PLENTY of water! I'd better stop and go to bed now before I devise a way to kill him.
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If he had filled both huge bowls and the rabbit water bottle, that would have been enough for the 3 cochin bantams.

Doesn't sound like he is fully at fault!

If there was only 3 chickens in the pen and 2 dishes of water and a bottle, they should have had water left in the dishes from the previous day.

Try buying some water fountians or larger dishes; other than our brooders- we make sure our pens have enough water to last for 2 days, that way if something happens that keeps me from refreshing the water they are still alright.

I am a night person too, when I am leaving early in the morning, I make sure all water dishes and feeders are filled the night before. Also a healthy chicken should be able to survive a day without water- as long as they are in the shade and in a well ventated pen.​
 
Ooh girl I know how your feeling and my heart breaks you lost your pretty girl. Last night my husband was moving the heavy wood run and my pheasant "Mr. Skittles" was standing close by the side were he could get his foot smashed by the heavy run. I have told him many times to go slow when moving it to make sure Skittles gets out of the way but my husband didn't pay attention!!! And he broken my pheasants foot. I was soooo mad and ready to break his foot! I've been being a real jerk to him but I really need to quit, he didn't mean to and he would do anything to take it back. He works so hard so I can stay home and trys his best to get me anything I want. I have Mr. Skittles in a cage in my house and I think the break will heal fine since it's lined up straight, fingers crossed. I would say your husband was just excited to go and visit with his family he just wasn't thinking right, but still give him a little h*ll you might get him to buy you some new chicks!!! LOL.
 
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