Re-living a Nightmare

[drdoolittle]

My baby girl was taken from me 21 years ago. I can't believe I would have a 21-yr. old daughter today-----if her loss wouldn't have happened. The hardest part for me each year, is imagining/wondering what she would be like as she grew. I'm so sorry you had to go through something like that.

 

[callducklover20]

I just lost one of my best friends last Friday and it really sucks, he died in his sleep-he was only 39 and had some health problems, I already miss him terribly. I know its not the same as losing your child but it still is a whole in your heart-all I can say is death sucks, Ive lost too many people in the last few years and Im sick of it. So sorry for you, I hate remembering dates like that

 

[turney31]

 

[Sjisty]

Deerman -

I lost my son in a car accident 11 years ago. It isn't natural to bury your child - your children should be burying you. It's a big gaping hole in my heart that will never close, so I know how you are feeling. Many hugs!

 

[sourland]

So sorry for your pain. We are not supposed to outlive our children.

 

[wegotchickens]

Deerman, 8/24 was the 1st anniversary of my daughter's death. I so totally and sadly understand your feelings.

On March 4th she would've been 18

It's like a knife in my heart thinking about her friends graduating at the end of the school year. Watching her little sister try to cope with being an only child now.

 

[Buff Hooligans]

I'm so sorry Deerman. Thank you for posting - hopefully you know how much people care about you, and others share your pain too.

 

[thechickenchick]

I can't say I understand, but just the thought is more than I can bear. My heart goes out to you

 

[savingdogs]

I've never experienced that kind of loss but understand profound grief.

My heart goes out to all of you who have lost children. Is is not every parent's worst nightmare? We live near where Kyron Horman is currently missing and it is a daily reminder to all of us to hug and cherish our loved ones that are still with us, seeing him on the news.

Cars are deadly and I don't think as a society we realize it as much as we should. Perhaps we should all stay in our backyards with our chickens more. They certainly help take my mind off my sad feelings.

 

[bargain]

Sorry for your loss. Praying for you...Nancy