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bsides2007
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Thank you all @Miss Lydia @DucksBySurprise and @thumper650
I was just feeling so overwhelmed this morning...I think the feeling is more like, helpless that I am trying so hard and nothing is working, and angry that someone would neglect them like that to begin with. I had to go to TSC and walmart today and scouted around for ideas and I found some. I started trying to think more about how I can help them with their limitations rather than having the mind set that they will get better. Maybe they will still, but maybe they won't. Anyway, I took a peek in the toy section in search of ideas and found some doll items that got me thinking. If they don't improve enough, my SO and I are going to try to build little ducky rollers (like the little round rolling play chairs you put babies in)! So I went home feeling a little bit better about future plans for them and then when I got in and saw their sweet faces peeping up at me I felt reassured. I changed their bedding and food and water and got them all settled in for the night and I noticed that TWICE Smeagol stood on her own, even if it was just for a minute. I am hoping that by handling her more and more I will start understanding how she's trying to operate better. Gollum was standing VERY tall on her hocks today too, so I still think there may be hope that she'll be up on her feet...maybe. I put a couple toys in their pen for more stimulation in hopes that they'll move after them. So, the update isn't all bad. Thanks for letting me vent- more updates to come
I was just feeling so overwhelmed this morning...I think the feeling is more like, helpless that I am trying so hard and nothing is working, and angry that someone would neglect them like that to begin with. I had to go to TSC and walmart today and scouted around for ideas and I found some. I started trying to think more about how I can help them with their limitations rather than having the mind set that they will get better. Maybe they will still, but maybe they won't. Anyway, I took a peek in the toy section in search of ideas and found some doll items that got me thinking. If they don't improve enough, my SO and I are going to try to build little ducky rollers (like the little round rolling play chairs you put babies in)! So I went home feeling a little bit better about future plans for them and then when I got in and saw their sweet faces peeping up at me I felt reassured. I changed their bedding and food and water and got them all settled in for the night and I noticed that TWICE Smeagol stood on her own, even if it was just for a minute. I am hoping that by handling her more and more I will start understanding how she's trying to operate better. Gollum was standing VERY tall on her hocks today too, so I still think there may be hope that she'll be up on her feet...maybe. I put a couple toys in their pen for more stimulation in hopes that they'll move after them. So, the update isn't all bad. Thanks for letting me vent- more updates to come