I've found the reported incidence of male deafness among married men to be concerning.
Being a music lover my hearing is obviously important to me. I often cite the long term hearing disability as a reason for remaining single.
There really should be some health studies carried out on the subject given the prevalence of the problem. I have great difficulty understanding the problem. Being not just a music lover, but also a Hi Fi enthusiast, I found some of my partners forever turning the music down, or telling me to do so. I had, given the above problem, assumed that this was concern over my hearing but experience, albeit somewhat limited, has proven that my partner/s were in fact concerned about not being able to make themselves heard over the music. I didn't fully understand the problem until my sister at a live concert was all for asking the guys at the mixing desk to lower the volume because she couldn't make herself heard above the music.