BESSIE IS IMPROVING!!!
She still can't stand unassisted, but she is eager, great appetite, and has discovered she can sit up just fine. Her hocks are still pretty sore and swollen - a combination of the original injury and being down, and she did get herself a couple of scrapes through this whole thing, but she is definitely getting better. The vet will be out to check her Monday (and do foal vax), but I'm betting she won't even need her by then. The vet, btw, is pretty unconcerned overall, which is always a good sign. She has a sprain, and while many cows would have either given up or not tolerated the handling and nursing, Bessie is great about letting us pull her through.
I'm sorry about Bessie! Hopefully she gets well. I think you have a great vision when it comes to breeding your horses. I'm a big temperament person too! In fact, I think a lot of that gets overlooked in a big way.
I got burnt out with horses that the handler/rider needs to be "on" at all times. It took the fun and joy away from horses and riding.
That little foal in your post is so cute!
Yes, exactly! Sometimes, you just want to ride, not work the horse. And a lot of times the choice is either that or a slug. I've found that a lot of times overall health, especially hoof health, is ignored too. People will put up with anything, in exchange for skill. English folks put up with a lot of babying ~Oh, he needs the farrier every month, and a blanket when it rains or he'll get rainrot, and don't forget to wet his hay..~ and Western riders laugh at that, and then have horses that need to be roped and have a scotch hobble to be saddled and will buck for the first 5 minutes of the ride and start breaking down at 7 and need hock injections.
It doesn't have to be either or.
That's a big part of what drew me to Connemaras. Often, hill farms had ONE horse, and the same one would plow the fields, take a cart to market (bring it back home on their own with the owner sleeping off spending the money at the pub), go fox-hunting on Saturday, and show off going to church Sunday morning. They'd get handled by everyone in the family from oldest to youngest and they did it whether stallion, mare or gelding - no excuses.
Then I learned about the Spanish concept of brio:
"Brío refers to a horse’s vigor, energy, exuberance, courage and liveliness; it automatically implies that these qualities are willingly placed in the service of the rider. Horses with true brio are willing workers." and I thought that this is exactly what all horses should have, and there's no reason to sacrifice anything else to get it.
Some people seem to take a weird sort of pride in having horses other people can't ride. Me? Want to ride = ok! If it is your first time ever, you can get on my horses. You'll be fine. We actually do a lot of that - I had one woman cry tears of joy because she had dreamed of riding a horse since she was a little girl, and she not only did, but she got to ride my fairy-tale "white stallion" and have her childhood dream come totally true, it was beautiful!!!
If you have a wall full of ribbons, you'll have fun! Go tearing around the mountain!