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Hi, I'm new here. I usually just lurk, but I felt strongly about this and wanted to let you know...
Unless you see, with your own eyes, actual abuse of children, please do not call Child Protective Services. False reporting is a crime, and even though you can report "anonymously" they can disclose your name with a judge's order. (usually when evidence suggests false reporting)
I have an estranged relative who can't stand that we homeschool, and disagreed with us on our conservative (nothing weird) beliefs. She decided to call in a false report chock full of lies, even though she hadn't seen my children or been to my house in years. An investigator arrived on our doorstep shortly thereafter. Unfortunately for us, we had already been judged guilty solely based on the false report. All evidence to prove us innocent was ignored by the so called investigator. (mountains of school records, plenty of food and clothing, water, electricity, shelter, all firearms locked up in a safe, negative drug tests and no drugs/alcohol present, affidavits from other relatives and our physicians, dentist, orthodontist, etc..., no marks or other signs of abuse or neglect on the children, a CASA agent- court appointed special advocate- who thought we were wonderful parents, and so forth) She decided that we were "at risk of educational and physical neglect." I found out later that this is a huge catagory designed so that almost anyone can fall into it. (woe to those with large families who live in rural areas!) CPS makes their money from federal CAPTA funding, so the more kids in their clutches the more funding they get- too much to get into here, there is an abundance of information on the internet if you're curious. Many innocent families have had similar experiences.
But I disgress. After CPS found us "at risk" they tried to force into "services." (another interesting area of research for the inquisitive)We refused to go along, they were ridiculous and intrusive. So we appealed their findings, and went to court with a lawyer. We spent thousands of dollars and countless hours of research to defend ourselves, along with plenty of sleepless nights worrying. We were cleared of all allegations, the judge actually laughed at at the CPS agents and told them to expunge all records and leave us alone!
I know plenty of other families who aren't so fortunate, and even end up having their children taken from them, even though they were innocent! (another good subject for study) So, once again, I implore you, DO NOT report someone to CPS for revenge! Even if your neighbor is a total ass, unless he is actually abusing his children it is not right to bear false witness! I can't even begin to describe how traumatic it is to have CPS investigating you. My children still panic whenever a strange vehicle pulls into our driveway, and one of my sons is still terrified of police 3 years later. (the police came with the investigator because we have firearms) Please consider the harm you may cause.
Thanks, and sorry for the length,
Lisa
I confess I didn't read this entire thread so I'm not sure where this came from but as a former CPS Investigator I can tell you you're wrong. You don't have to be an eye witness to abuse to make a report. The legal standard for making a Child Abuse Report is "a reasonable cause to suspect". The standaed is deliberately vague because it's believed that false positives are better than false negatives.
Hi, I'm new here. I usually just lurk, but I felt strongly about this and wanted to let you know...
Unless you see, with your own eyes, actual abuse of children, please do not call Child Protective Services. False reporting is a crime, and even though you can report "anonymously" they can disclose your name with a judge's order. (usually when evidence suggests false reporting)
I have an estranged relative who can't stand that we homeschool, and disagreed with us on our conservative (nothing weird) beliefs. She decided to call in a false report chock full of lies, even though she hadn't seen my children or been to my house in years. An investigator arrived on our doorstep shortly thereafter. Unfortunately for us, we had already been judged guilty solely based on the false report. All evidence to prove us innocent was ignored by the so called investigator. (mountains of school records, plenty of food and clothing, water, electricity, shelter, all firearms locked up in a safe, negative drug tests and no drugs/alcohol present, affidavits from other relatives and our physicians, dentist, orthodontist, etc..., no marks or other signs of abuse or neglect on the children, a CASA agent- court appointed special advocate- who thought we were wonderful parents, and so forth) She decided that we were "at risk of educational and physical neglect." I found out later that this is a huge catagory designed so that almost anyone can fall into it. (woe to those with large families who live in rural areas!) CPS makes their money from federal CAPTA funding, so the more kids in their clutches the more funding they get- too much to get into here, there is an abundance of information on the internet if you're curious. Many innocent families have had similar experiences.
But I disgress. After CPS found us "at risk" they tried to force into "services." (another interesting area of research for the inquisitive)We refused to go along, they were ridiculous and intrusive. So we appealed their findings, and went to court with a lawyer. We spent thousands of dollars and countless hours of research to defend ourselves, along with plenty of sleepless nights worrying. We were cleared of all allegations, the judge actually laughed at at the CPS agents and told them to expunge all records and leave us alone!
I know plenty of other families who aren't so fortunate, and even end up having their children taken from them, even though they were innocent! (another good subject for study) So, once again, I implore you, DO NOT report someone to CPS for revenge! Even if your neighbor is a total ass, unless he is actually abusing his children it is not right to bear false witness! I can't even begin to describe how traumatic it is to have CPS investigating you. My children still panic whenever a strange vehicle pulls into our driveway, and one of my sons is still terrified of police 3 years later. (the police came with the investigator because we have firearms) Please consider the harm you may cause.
Thanks, and sorry for the length,
Lisa
I confess I didn't read this entire thread so I'm not sure where this came from but as a former CPS Investigator I can tell you you're wrong. You don't have to be an eye witness to abuse to make a report. The legal standard for making a Child Abuse Report is "a reasonable cause to suspect". The standaed is deliberately vague because it's believed that false positives are better than false negatives.