It's not the once a year fundraisers I have problems with, it's the 5, yes, 5 fundraisers that my twin daughters were expected to participate in last year for school and sports. We had a problem with one or two of the coaches trying to punish students who didn't sell $15 tubs of cookies. The principal and superintendent got to know me very quickly. However, I did offered to pay my daughters portions for their extracurricular activities.