Karen, I'm so very sorry about Clarence. Though some folks would say you (and I) should have just euthanized the bird when we knew it was hopeless, they sometimes don't understand the connection we have with certain ones. I've put it off and put it off when I felt the bird was not in any real pain. I would much rather just find them gone than watch them go little by little, it's true, and I'd always rather never be the one whose hand does the deed. But, then, I've seen some rally over and over again, and I never know for sure if this is the one time they won't, like with Ivy.

