Sorry to hear Shad. Families are so difficult.Tomorrow evening I'm going to get a delivery of a few boxes of mainly items my father had which I remember from my childhood. I'm not entirely sure what's coming. Communication with those involved in the clearance of our family home has been difficult to say the least. Memories best left buried have surfaced for some.
I've found it strange what I've remembered from the house; enough to pinpoint the location of things I would rather not get thrown away. Stranger still is the siblings who are making the sale of the house and doing the clearance don't seem to remember the things I do despite having visited the house a number of times over the years.
A major bone of contention is in their rush to be done with the whole business they sold at £300,000 below the market value for a quick cash sale.
I've asked for personal itmes of my fathers. Nobody else wants them. My father was not a popular man with his children or either of his wives from what I can gather. I came to know him better by accident really in my early fifties and got to talk to him at depth over a three month period. We would get an hour or so of decent, mainly honest, conversation and the whiskey would kick in, about a third of a bottle, and he would get maudlin and then belligerant and eventually incoherent. Those single good hours of communication day by day helped me to understand the man better and judge him less harshly.
Sorry about the ramble. It's been a difficult time and it's been on my thankfully usually vacant except chickens mind.![]()
I am fortunate really not having any.