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I was a young, uneducated, unprepared single mother when I had my oldest. I probably fit into one of your "shouldn't be allowed to have kids" categories. Guess what? My son is almost 12, has an autism spectrum disorder, and is doing GREAT! I didn't know what I was doing when I brought him home from the hospital, had no idea how hard it was actually going to be, but I turned into a GREAT mother. I breastfed him for over a year, which is WAY more than most mothers can say. He has always had food, clothing, shelter, and--most important-- LOVE. Maybe we've been poor most of his life, but I graduated from college, married a man w/ a PhD, and he is currently taking pre-algebra at a great school in the 6th grade (2 grades ahead, he is also in the advanced science and language arts classes.) You can't judge before you know someone and make a blanket statement that certain groups of people shouldn't have kids, or have pets! Maybe they're going into it blindly, but that doesn't necessarily mean they aren't going to learn and do a great job!
I also wasn't prepared at all when we got our first chickens. I had been bugging dh about it for over a year when he finally said ok, let's get some chickens. I looked on craigslist and drove out and got some the next day, had to buy food and supplies later that day, b/c we had nothing. Guess what? They still don't have a coop or a run, but they are thriving in my fenced in yard and like the shed they sleep in just fine.
I was a young, uneducated, unprepared single mother when I had my oldest. I probably fit into one of your "shouldn't be allowed to have kids" categories. Guess what? My son is almost 12, has an autism spectrum disorder, and is doing GREAT! I didn't know what I was doing when I brought him home from the hospital, had no idea how hard it was actually going to be, but I turned into a GREAT mother. I breastfed him for over a year, which is WAY more than most mothers can say. He has always had food, clothing, shelter, and--most important-- LOVE. Maybe we've been poor most of his life, but I graduated from college, married a man w/ a PhD, and he is currently taking pre-algebra at a great school in the 6th grade (2 grades ahead, he is also in the advanced science and language arts classes.) You can't judge before you know someone and make a blanket statement that certain groups of people shouldn't have kids, or have pets! Maybe they're going into it blindly, but that doesn't necessarily mean they aren't going to learn and do a great job!
I also wasn't prepared at all when we got our first chickens. I had been bugging dh about it for over a year when he finally said ok, let's get some chickens. I looked on craigslist and drove out and got some the next day, had to buy food and supplies later that day, b/c we had nothing. Guess what? They still don't have a coop or a run, but they are thriving in my fenced in yard and like the shed they sleep in just fine.

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