Wow MC, your new house guest sounds like a huge responsibility. And unpleasant to boot. Oy vey! I always wonder if people like that are just really unhappy and spreading their misery, or if they really enjoy being a pain in the fanny. Either way, it's very sad and not much fun for you.
Just remember, people will treat you the way you allow them to. You don't have to be mean or nasty, but draw your line in the sand and don't let anyone cross it. If you can stay neutral and impersonal, the person will soon give up. But as soon as you react negatively, they can sense weakness and continue going for the kill. Chickens, especially roosters, know all about this. Think of her as a skinny old molting broody (deserving compassion), but you are top of the pecking order (deserving respect), and will let her into your flock, but she needs to know that you are the head hen! Isn't chicken psychology great?!
Hehehee If she gets means, you can start squawking at her.
Maybe she'll behave herself if she thinks you're bonkers!
Go Fowl Power!
Take care of yourself.
We're all here for you.
Just remember, people will treat you the way you allow them to. You don't have to be mean or nasty, but draw your line in the sand and don't let anyone cross it. If you can stay neutral and impersonal, the person will soon give up. But as soon as you react negatively, they can sense weakness and continue going for the kill. Chickens, especially roosters, know all about this. Think of her as a skinny old molting broody (deserving compassion), but you are top of the pecking order (deserving respect), and will let her into your flock, but she needs to know that you are the head hen! Isn't chicken psychology great?!
Hehehee If she gets means, you can start squawking at her.
Take care of yourself.