If my husband ever tried that with me he would be so sorry. Anytime I ask him if he can do something for me he does give me a bit of attitude however he will give in to me (except for making anything out of wood), but eventually he will.
Well, I could „force“ him, but then he gets destructive

I once asked him to trim the lawn edge, he hacked all my flowers and stepped on them too

he really HATES gardening, he says, if he wants to look at flowers ( that urge has not overcome him yet) he can go to a flower show

since he isn’t interested, he can’t see what is weed and what is important, when I raise tomatoes, he says just buy them in the store, he can’t taste the difference! I didn’t really know about his dislike of gardening cos at first, my 4 kids kept me very busy, then our well dried up, and nothing grows here without irrigation

when we finally got our well fixed ( took a few years cos it is expensive) I finally could start gardening, and hubby met a new me, which wasn’t how he had met me

maybe his mother’s comment back in the day should have given me a clue, she had all her apple trees hacked down cos she said the apples in the supermarket looked much nicer
