*sigh* I'm loosing my touch. (Warning: Hi-jacked by Em)

[LittleLady98]

What happened since I've gone missing? Lol.

 

[sourland]

Well, the moats are in disarray. Many of our Elders and many of our Youngers have moved on to -------------? We are struggling on a mere reminder of our once inimitable glory.

 

[ChickenLeg]

and i just ate a slice of pizza

 

[Tanichca]

ACTUALLY, things went fine. He even hugged me back! And, since he shaved his beard, he isn't cute at all. Besides, I am crushing on Matthew now, who is decidedly un-sparkly.

Meanies.

 

[LittleLady98]

Well, the moats are in disarray. Many of our Elders and many of our Youngers have moved on to -------------? We are struggling on a mere reminder of our once inimitable glory.

I've been RPing in GJF...But I've been around.

 

[Bunnylady]

ACTUALLY, things went fine. He even hugged me back! And, since he shaved his beard, he isn't cute at all. Besides, I am crushing on Matthew now, who is decidedly un-sparkly.

Meanies.

I'm glad it went well. Drama is fun when it's someone else, but it's a pain to live, isn't it?

Even when I was y'all's age, I couldn't understand why it was that a couple were supposed to go from ardent lovers to sworn enemies after a breakup. Both extremes seemed just that to me, too extreme. I know I'm unbearably old-fashioned, but the way I see it, until you are thinking about a lifetime commitment, you need to guard your heart. I had a college roommate who was so in love with being in love that she fell head over heels over every guy that gave her the time of day. When they inevitably broke up, she was devastated, and I felt like, "why do you keep doing this to yourself? Until you are both ready for a lifetime commitment, giving your whole heart is just asking to get it broken." I knew some of these guys quite well, they were very nice guys that most likely made wonderful husbands somewhere down the road, but they weren't serious then (at least, not about her). To blame them for not being as wound up in her as she was in them seemed to me unfair. I have never had my heart so involved in a situation, that my head couldn't tell what was going on. Does that make me weird?

 

[sourland]

I'm glad it went well. Drama is fun when it's someone else, but it's a pain to live, isn't it?

Even when I was y'all's age, I couldn't understand why it was that a couple were supposed to go from ardent lovers to sworn enemies after a breakup. Both extremes seemed just that to me, too extreme. I know I'm unbearably old-fashioned, but the way I see it, until you are thinking about a lifetime commitment, you need to guard your heart. I had a college roommate who was so in love with being in love that she fell head over heels over every guy that gave her the time of day. When they inevitably broke up, she was devastated, and I felt like, "why do you keep doing this to yourself? Until you are both ready for a lifetime commitment, giving your whole heart is just asking to get it broken." I knew some of these guys quite well, they were very nice guys that most likely made wonderful husbands somewhere down the road, but they weren't serious then (at least, not about her). To blame them for not being as wound up in her as she was in them seemed to me unfair. I have never had my heart so involved in a situation, that my head couldn't tell what was going on. Does that make me weird?

That is actually pretty realistic and does not add to your innate weirdness.

I worked with a guy much like your college roommate. He was "in love with love" - never grew beyond that. he is now

and alone.

 

[JD4570]

Not at all Bunny. One of my closest friends is an ex-girlfriend, we're now more like a sister and brother. The few that "hate" me have now been married at least twice and divorced and nothing is their fault. Me thinks someone needs to look in a mirror to see the problem.

 

[LittleLady98]

I just remembered something...how has Queen Em been?

 

[Bunnylady]

Queen Em

has been, well, elusive. We miss her more than we see her.