I was online friends for a long time with a lady in Seattle who was in a non religious based polygamist marriage. It worked for her and her family. It was a harmonious group, the kids were well balanced and both wives worked part time at the business they all co-owned. Someone was always home for the kids whethor it was one of the moms or the dad. No one was forced into the marriage and they all had equal rights in the business and the home they owned. They sure changed my perspective on what I thought I knew about polygamists. Just like every other group in this world no two marriages are alike or are based on the same principles and ideals. Not all polygamists are welfare sucking underage marrying scum some are just decent fairly normal folks trying to live day to day like the rest of us. Just my opinion