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what you are doing sounds like a great start. it's possible that she will go back to her normal self once her heat cycle is over. However, I would make sure that she is crated when no adults are home and wouldn't leave the dogs outside together completely unsupervised. I just didn't want you to say "oh her heat cycle is over and she is acting her normal old self again" and trust her too soon.
I'd NILIF the crap out of all of them (and the hubby
) There are actually few dogs who want to be dominant over people. Like humans, 99% or more are happy to just follow the crowd and let someone else take responsibility. Yes, like Starfire said, dogs will have their own hierarchy and, despite all the people who will say to the contrary, humans have little say in who is "top dog" As the human, you can reinforce the behavior you expect and you can "back up" the existing top dog if you want by feeding first and other tokens like that. However, if you think Dog A shouldn't be top dog you can't place Dog B in that position by giving special favors - that will only encourage squabbles and fighting. Often, you will find that Dog B doesn't WANT to be top dog and will resist your efforts to show special favor. I've seen that a lot with new dog owners. They bring in a new dog that is a more dominant personality but try to push the older, more submissive dog to be top dog and end up creating a lot of fights. If you have two dominant dogs that both insist on fighting for the position, you can train manageable behavior. Fighting and posturing isn't allowed and you need to redirect them to more appropriate behaviors in your presence. I don't allow staring, humping, posturing and other dominant behaviors between my dogs or towards other dogs. I redirect their attention elsewhere with a strong "leave it" and I expect it to be obeyed. If not, the dog goes into a "time out" and is removed from the situation. Study up on your dog body language and head things off at the pass. A lot of times, I will talk to people who say "Fluffy is always attacking JoJo for no reason. We're going to have to rehome Fluffy." However, when an experienced person watches the dogs interact, they find that JoJo is the one who is actually instigating the fights - Fluffy is merely the dog who throws the first punch. They are shocked at all of the body language and "discussion" they missed between their dogs. Not saying that is you but I bet it could be your husband. I know mine can be pretty clueless about such things.
what you are doing sounds like a great start. it's possible that she will go back to her normal self once her heat cycle is over. However, I would make sure that she is crated when no adults are home and wouldn't leave the dogs outside together completely unsupervised. I just didn't want you to say "oh her heat cycle is over and she is acting her normal old self again" and trust her too soon.

