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My DH is a retired Army Sargeant. The thought that he doesn't rule his roost ruffles his feathers terribly. He even dislikes my compromises because he feels he's the one who has to give the most in every compromise.
And then I remind him that he can go back to the lonely boring life he lived before we got married. He ruled his roost then. There were no unexpected surprises. No cats, kids, chickens or spouse making messes and complicating his life and his rules.
I think that's what aggravates him the most sometimes. He bought into the idea of my 'trainwreck' existence (his term for it) when we got married 3 years ago. But I think secretly he thought he could change me and the girls, and mold us into 'better' people. He never expected that we were dedicated to being ourselves and that he might be the one to have to change and adapt...