So :( Husband leaving for 3 mths to work out of town

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Four years ago my husband and I made the decision to slow life down a bit and move from the Napa Valley so we could have some land and become more self-sufficient. So we sold our two homes, a piece of land and ended up in Happy Valley, CA.

We both worked for Charles Krug winery owned by the Peter Mondavi family. I was the Executive Assistant to the Mondavi family and he was the Cellar Master supervising the production of the wine making.

I left first in June and he stayed for 6 additional months. When he left they made him an offer that we couldn't refuse. He could return each harvest season and work for 3 months, continue our insurance year round and have housing in one of the guest homes on the winery property. And, he would make as much there in 3 months as he could working here all year.

Well, the long of the story is that his 3 months starts tomorrow. It is so hard to have him go. He is everything to me. Guess that is why I fell in love with him at first sight (yes it does happen) 18 years ago. I try not to cry since it makes him feel bad.

We are extremely thankful to have the work and it affords us the opportunity for him to work on establishing our ranch the other 9 months of the year. But none the less its hard to be without him.

So will be chatting here more to past the time when I'm not working full time and hang out more with my chicky poos who can always turn the frown into a smile.
 
I feel for you. 3 months is a long time. Once a year or so my husband has to go out of town for work but only for a week or so at a time. I hate not having him home to talk to. But I do have 2 boys who keep me very busy and that makes the time fly.

Hope you keep really busy so 3 months won't seem so long. By the way you have a really cute coop.
 
Just think how happy you will be to see each other in 3 months, they say absence makes the heart grow fonder. You will miss him, but we will try to keep you entertained. Hope you at least have a dog to keep you company, or better yet a family member you haven't seen in a while to come visit.
 
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im so sorry..my husband did telecom work in texas and was gone for 3 months and i was so lonely!
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can you guys talk on the computer? maybe if you get a webcam you can have a sort of video conference thing.
 
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tell that to my husband. the first thing he said when he got back was
"youve put on some weight!"

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tell that to my husband. the first thing he said when he got back was
"youve put on some weight!"

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I would have sent him back where he came from!!!
 
3 months is a long time! I don't know about others, but I find when my husband goes away for a few days, life is much more relaxed around here. Meals are more casual, and the kids and I just hang out chilling.
 
3 months is just a blink. You will turn around and it will be over. Just talk every single day, even if it is just for a second. Share what is going on, especially the mundane stuff. I tend to use my alone time to try to perfect myself. I have a LONG way to go! LOL
 
I feel for you... right now my boyfriend and I are separated since December, he came back once for 2 days in May and in two weeks he'll be here for 4 days:ya He's in Boston area because his teenage son needs him. Hopefully he'll be back for good in January. Meanwhile we talk on the phone a lot!

That is an awesome deal you guys have with the winery though! Do you ever take a few days and go visit? That might help break up the 3 month period a little to have a visit to look forward to. I've heard of Happy Valley but I'm not sure exactly where that is?

Hang in there!
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Nancy
 

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